Sometimes, what seems like a simple preference in the bedroom could reflect deeper dynamics in the relationship. In some cases, it could be a subtle way of avoiding emotional connection or maintaining control—keeping things on their terms.
Not every controlling partner is loud or aggressive—some use quiet tactics that fly under the radar. These behaviors can slip in over time, making it harder to recognize how influence and power might be shifting in the relationship.
Keep an eye out for patterns—not just in intimacy, but in how decisions are made, how you’re spoken to, and whether your needs are being met, too. Healthy relationships are built on mutual respect and balance—in every position. 😏